GGG why are trials like this?

These trials are so ridiculously toxic. I hate them so much. Really the only thing in PoE2 I hate. But beyond the simple displeasure of the whole system why is everything about it so obtuse?

After getting almost to the end of the 4th trial of the suckymah I lost all honor by making one mistake. So that was a huge waste of time. So I decided to try trial of chaos instead. I get all the way through 10 trials. I think I'm done. Nope. There is *another* boss. Fine. Let me kill that now. Click on the door. It takes my "fate" and gives a message that I'm "missing the correct fate". Huh?

So after having to google wtf was happening I learn that you need to run the trial multiple times to get *THREE* different "fates"? Or to somehow have known to buy them ahead of time? That would be asinine enough but it also ate my one fate so now that one is gone, too. So I just did that entire 10 trials for absolutely nothing.

It would be one thing if that was the way it was but it was somehow clear that was how it works but to spend all this time FOR NOTHING when I didn't even lose the trials is pretty infuriating. Not sure if this is supposed to be some sort of dev humor or what. Haha. So hilarious to waste people's time I guess.