Progress destroying disconnects

Got numerous disconnects now where when I log back (as soon as possible)
my character sits in the hideout.

- map portals closed
- map is now attended state (so the events are gone)
- map icon is blue (so according to that indicator its unattended)

keystone and loot picked up is gone.

As if its a glitched rollback.

Not sure if it helps identify the problem, but usually it happens when I instill delirium on waystone.
So for me its a heavier invested map. (there was no delirium event)