Passive Tree gem sockets are a nightmare on xbox and refunding the node causing a glitch

so when I'm respecing and I hit a gem socket on the passive tree I have to exit out to put then gem into my inventory and when I go back in 50% of the time, I can't refund the node. It's very annoying. I have to restart the game.

Also can we get a list of the socketed gems on the side or bottom? It is a nightmare using a controller to have to go to every node to get to a socket to see which gem is there and then to have completely exit out of the menu to resocket the gems. thanks.

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And - I would also like to be able to click advanced info like on skills to see what modifiers on the gem