My thoughts on the game's difficult

My opinion is that the controls and the response to actions are what cause most of the frustration. Somehow I keep comparing PoE2 with No rest for the wicked due to the slow pacing, but in NRFTW the controls are, in my opinion, more tunned towards the slow pacing game, the scenario, the character and the controls.
PoE2 has too many features that "tells" the player that is a PoE1/Diablo zoom and pyrotechnie game style, it is kinda cosolidated mental model and thus create this dissonance.

Maybe run your post though chatgtp so it can phrase it in a way that makes sense

What part is not clear for you? I can try to explain better.