Delirium Spite monster damage

With the many back to back patches this league has received from visual clarity to a certain mid league cluster jewel rebalance, I can't help but feel the monster rebalance, specifically in regards to the spite monsters is being overlooked.
If like me your doing t16 100% delirium maps you probably know what I'm talking about. I'm all for making the game harder and quite frankly I think it's somewhat necessary just to make players slow down a little and respect the enemy. But when a pack of white monsters in still more fear and demand more respect from the player than the bosses, I feel we have a serious issue. I'm sure people have many examples of these overturned monsters sending their exiles to an early grave and if you do I encourage you to post here with character stats and the map situation. Hopefully we can get them squashed down together and make them just scary and not the thing of nightmares